Refer: respond to student-to-student abuse
Guidance on how to refer students to community services. Refer is one of the 4 Critical Actions.
Schools
As soon as you believe a student has been, or is at risk of being abused by another student, you must act.
4 CRITICAL ACTIONS
⬣ Identify ▲ Report ● Support ■ Refer
On this page
- Refer students to community services
- Identify a suitable service
- Help students connect to a service
- Continue to help students as appropriate
- Next steps
Note: This page is about responding to non-family violence incidents. When student-to-student abuse is defined as family violence (intimate partner relationships and siblings), go to respond to abuse in the family and follow the steps.
Refer students to community services
Your school can refer students to a range of specialist support services that are available in the community. Refer complements support. Both actions can happen at the same time if that is the best way to help the student.
Specialist support services assist with:
- safety, wellbeing and mental and physical health concerns
- problem behaviours
- legal advice
- financial help.
Specialist support services are available to assist:
- victim survivors of abuse
- people who use violence
- people who self-harm
- children and young people
- parents and families
- metropolitan, regional and rural communities
- Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities
- culturally and linguistically diverse communities
- people with disabilities
- LGBTIQA+ communities.
Students can also access further support and information directly. You can provide them with a list of helplines and websites.
Identify a suitable service
Before you engage with students and their parents or carers, highlight which services are likely to be the most suitable.
This will depend on:
- the type of abuse the student experienced
- the support that the students need
- any history that the students have with community services.
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- Matters involving harmful sexual behaviour
For matters involving sexual offences schools can refer directly to local sexual assault services. This includes local Centres Against Sexual Assault (CASAs) and harmful sexual behaviour services. These services will provide:
- support for students who have experienced sexual harm and abuse
- support for school wellbeing staff to manage sexual abuse incidents involving students
- treatment programs for students using harmful sexual behaviours
- support for parents and carers of students using harmful sexual behaviours
- support staff to support victims of sexual offences
- victim-centric communication.
- Other matters
Key services for students who have experienced student-to-student abuse are:
- Headspace: Mental health and wellbeing support for 12-25-year-olds
- Victims of Crime: Support and information for people affected by crime. For full contact details and a list of helplines and websites with support and information on child abuse, go to services, helplines and websites.
You can also consider:
- a local specialist support service that the student or their family already work with
- the student or family’s general practitioner (GP) Their GP can connect the student to psychologists, counsellors and other health specialists.
Help students connect to a service
Talk to students and their parents or carers about the services that are available. This can help them choose the service that best meets their needs.
Ideally, a student will self-refer to a service, with the help and support of their parents or carers. However, your school can help to connect a student to a service. You could do this by making a phone call to the service with, or on behalf of the student.
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- Support First Nations Peoples
Decisions about the needs of First Nations Peoples should be made by First Nations Peoples.
If someone identifies as Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander, they can choose to be supported by a worker from an Aboriginal Community Controlled Organisation (ACCO).
See a list of ACCOs.
Your school should continue to:
- provide support to the student
- monitor the situation
- follow the 4 Critical Actions to respond to new information or risks.
- Referring a student or their family without their consent
You may refer a student without their parents’ or carers’ knowledge or consent when:
- not connecting the student to a service increases the risk to the student’s safety or wellbeing
- informing the parents or carers increases the risk to the student’s safety or wellbeing. Depending on the circumstances and what the student wants, you can engage with one parent or carer and not the other.
Contact the service to seek advice if you are unsure about whether you can make a referral without the parents’ or carers’ knowledge or consent.
- Refer to local specialist support services
Access to specialist services varies across communities. If local support is limited or not immediately available, schools can contact:
- their senior education improvement leader or area executive director
- Regional Health, Wellbeing and Inclusion Workforces. For contact details, see support and advisory services for school staff.
- When to call Child Protection for students using harmful sexual behaviours
If a student is using harmful sexual behaviours, and their parents or carers are not willing or able to help the student connect to a service, you can call Child Protection. This is important if there is another child or young person, such as a sibling, living in the same house as the student using harmful sexual behaviours. That child or young person may be at risk of sexual abuse.
Child Protection will undertake a risk assessment and determine if further action is required.
If Child Protection assesses that a student needs therapeutic treatment, they will connect them to a service for sexual abuse behaviour treatment.
If the student is unlikely to access the service voluntarily, Child Protection can apply for a Therapeutic Treatment Order. This will require the student and their parents or carers to attend a service.
Call Child Protection
During business hours (8:45am to 5pm, Monday to Friday), call the intake service for the student’s local government area (LGA) where they normally live:
- North Division: 1300 598 521
- South Division: 1300 555 526
- East Division: 1300 360 452
- West Division: 1300 360 462. After hours, call the afterhours service: 13 12 78.
If you are unsure which number to call, find which LGAs are in each intake service at Child Protection contacts.
You cannot make Child Protection reports online or via email.
- Use information sharing to contact services
Engage school staff with information sharing responsibilities to share and request information with and from other Information Sharing Entities (ISEs) under the Child Information Sharing Scheme (CISS).
For example, your school can:
- share details of an incident with your local CASA/harmful sexual behaviour service
- request information on the status of a referral. To share information safely and appropriately, follow the guidance for staff who use CISS and FVISS.
Continue to help students as appropriate
If your school helps to refer a student to a specialist support service, that service may inform you of the outcome of the referral.
If you are not part of the referral, you may still learn of the outcome through an information sharing request. For example, this could happen if the student self-referred.
The service may tell you:
- what services the student has been connected to
- if they were unsuccessful in contacting the student – they may ask for your help
- if the student or their parents or carers declined support.
If a student or their parents or carers do not want to engage with a service at this time, you can give them the list of services, helplines and websites.
By giving them this list, the student or their parents or carers can directly connect with further support and information when they are ready. This is another way to help them feel empowered and make it more likely that they seek help, even if it is not immediate.
Follow up with the student or their parent or carers to ensure they can access the services they need. If the student is unable to access a service, consider alternatives that may be available.
At all times, you should:
- continue to provide support to the student
- monitor the situation
- continue to follow the 4 Critical Actions to respond to new information or risks.
This should be in collaboration with:
- the student
- their parents or carers
- relevant authorities
- specialist support services involved in supporting the student.
Next steps
Continue the 4 Critical Actions
While you refer the student, continue to support them. You may need to support and refer the student at the same time.
You may also need to report to authorities.
⬣ Identify ▲ Report ● Support ■ Refer
Updated 30 March 2026
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